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Living Intentionally

By: Hannah Ariesen

              According to Wikipedia, “Intentional living is any lifestyle based on an individual or group's conscious attempts to live according to their values and beliefs. These can include lifestyles based on Religious, Political or Ethical values, as well as Coaching, Personal Transformation, and Leadership Training” (2). At its core, that’s what intentional living is. But in the lens of mindfulness, it’s also about making the conscious decision to do something. We may categorize Vegans or Minimalists as people that are part of intentional living groups because it is their conscious decision to do something that aligns with their moral or ethical values. However, even if we don’t affiliate with a group, we can still live intentionally and have intentions at the most basic individual level.

 

“The simple act of just thinking about what matters to you around your house is a step in the right direction. Whether it’s fostering a positive experience in your life, or just changing something that bothers you, there are plenty of small tweaks you can make to live a more intentional life” (1).

  Deciding to have a morning routine, deciding to add more plants in your room because it makes you feel happy, deciding to have a self care routine or eat more consciously—whatever it may be, you’re deciding. Your intention is followed through by your decision. Over the last 30 days I started to be more intentional about what I was doing. It goes hand in hand with mindfulness, and the two together are a power-duo. For example, I made myself aware of what I was experiencing mentally, and made a conscious decision to do something about it. I decided to read more, write more, meditate more just to see what would happen—and the last 30 days have been a step in the right direction. It was not transformative, but healthy transformation takes time.

              Intentional living comes in two steps—“Defining your values and taking action intentionally” (4). Asking yourself what your values are and then making decisions based on them is essentially what intentional living is. But how does that add any meaning to your life? Intentional living, by nature, will make you more mindful. You are aware of your intention, and aware of your decision. Your conscious effort to do something brings presence to your life because of your decision-making. However, your intention should not be blurred by outcome or goal.

              In many ways, the goal of getting something out of an action can often ruin your intention. You spend more time focused on reaching the goal, than the actual intention or decision itself. This is where we switch lenses. Instead of looking at decisions, let's take a look at just intentions—specifically about meditation.

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“Intentions are found (and re-found) in the present, so just by making one, you have already accomplished what you set out to do (well done, you!). An intention cannot fail, because it happens right now. With an intention, there is no required result—we are simply connecting to our chosen course. “I’m just going to practice, and see what happens” (3).

              Approaching meditation or mindfulness this way is crucial, but your intention of buying more plants to make you feel happier is different. Intentional living is different from grounding your intentions, but both play a role in adding meaning to your life. Both practices bring you back to the present moment, the now. The big existential fear most of us have of death and impermanence can be lessened by present living. Present living can be induced by intentional action or living with intentions. That being said, what are you going to decide?

  1. Hagstrom, Erin Perez, and Erin Perez Hagstrom. “Mindful Matters: Little Ways to Live Your Life More Intentionally.” Apartment Therapy, Apartment Therapy, LLC., 30 Apr. 2019, www.apartmenttherapy.com/mindfulness-little-ways-to-stay-intentional-at-home-239822.

  2. “Intentional Living.” Wikipedia, Wikimedia Foundation, 25 Feb. 2019, en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intentional_living.

  3. “Meditate With Intention, Not Goals.” Mindful, 18 June 2018, www.mindful.org/meditate-with-intention-not-goals/.

  4. “Simple Living Daily.” Simple Living Daily, 24 Apr. 2019, simplelivingdaily.com/.

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